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“I feel single because I’m starving for attention—and not getting any,” he says. “I’d rather be actually single and free to look for connection than married and begging for scraps of affection.”

Intimacy—not just sex, but emotional nakedness—has evaporated. Chester feels like a roommate with a ring. Feeling single while married is a strange kind of grief. You can’t mourn a breakup because you’re still together. You can’t complain too loudly because friends say, “At least you have someone.” But loneliness in a marriage cuts deeper than being alone. Chester Am Fully Married But Am Feeling Single

He’s also started asking himself hard questions: When did I stop pursuing her? When did she stop feeling safe with me? “I feel single because I’m starving for attention—and