There is a pressure at 21 to have a plan. A degree. A 5-year roadmap. A LinkedIn profile that doesn't make you want to throw your laptop into the sea. But here, in North Goa, nobody asks for your roadmap. The Russian tourist next to me is reading a paperback. The German guy is learning to juggle fire. The Goan uncle selling earrings doesn't care if you are a CEO or a college dropout. He just asks, "You happy, baby?"
Don't post it immediately. Don't put a filter on it. Just look at it. Look at your eyes. Ask them: Are you okay? goan-21-selfie -1-
[Image description for the blog: A vertical selfie. A young person at 21 years old sits at a wooden table. Behind them is a dark, moody sea and a single orange candle flickers in the bottom left corner. The flash creates a soft halo around their hair. The expression is neutral but kind.] There is a pressure at 21 to have a plan
- If you are in Goa and see a girl taking a selfie at 9:47 PM, don't photobomb her. She is probably having a revelation. [End of Blog Post] A LinkedIn profile that doesn't make you want
April 16, 2026
I am sitting on a rusted iron bench outside a shack called "Sunset & Sadness" (ironic, because I feel neither). My phone battery is at 4%. My hair is a disaster of sea salt and coconut oil. And I have just taken .